tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post1986785893706389343..comments2023-08-27T03:46:44.855-07:00Comments on Sailing my way through...: Oh no you didnt!?!?!?!?Rebekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10550034649514622918noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-9727122580610055652010-03-10T12:28:28.602-08:002010-03-10T12:28:28.602-08:00Maybe it would be good for her to go live with her...Maybe it would be good for her to go live with her father. The kids are already separated, the youngest is gone. It must be really tough for her coping with that. Of course it's up to you what happens you are her mother and know best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-32698862317702362982010-03-08T10:07:23.370-08:002010-03-08T10:07:23.370-08:00Elly has it right. Chelsea is a CHILD. The first 2...Elly has it right. Chelsea is a CHILD. The first 24 hours in a missing childs case are considered the best time to find them. After that, the odds they are dead increases dramatically. The 24 hour rule applies to adults only. If it happens again, the SECOND you realize she's missing, CALL THE POLICE.<br /><br />You might want to tell your stupid effing VP of that little fact, because holy hell, that stupid idiot is in charge of multiple children. That pissed me off!sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14817736786530470345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-46656973736542602702010-03-06T21:13:11.100-08:002010-03-06T21:13:11.100-08:00Wow! I'm SO glad she is home and safe! I jus...Wow! I'm SO glad she is home and safe! I just found your blog after reading the other Rebekah's story many times. I was hoping and wishing I would find you in blogworld:). I have read your story and am so in awe of the strength and wisdom you have. I'll keep following:). Oh, and by the way, not sure if you know, but there is a NASTY comment on the June 22 post of the video...do you delete those? Phew, some people are...well, you know....<br />Your story will always be in my heart...Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03064955747540959696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-68298555485839237542010-03-06T19:52:19.213-08:002010-03-06T19:52:19.213-08:00You have your hands full. Maybe the move could br...You have your hands full. Maybe the move could bring you all together and bring some healing to Chelsea? Sounds like she's overwhelmed and just pushing you and testing the limits. Just love her harder...and keep rules in place. <br /><br />Also...you CAN call the police...anytime! You can always call them and at least file the info. They may not make an official report (for an adult), but they do take the info and can distribute it to the officers who are on the roads. <br /><br />You'll be in my prayers tonight - xoLaurelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03574520281119898584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-70952710050400566802010-03-06T14:30:11.294-08:002010-03-06T14:30:11.294-08:00I'm sorry! But in her defense, I have done the...I'm sorry! But in her defense, I have done the same thing as a kid and didn't regret it one bit. It is almost liberating at that age to make a big decision like that even if it is STUPID!<br /><br />Her wanting to live with her dad is another story. Her reasons are silly. She thinks life will be better there and the poor kid will be dissapointed...I give her 2 weeks tops! How about a visit to go see her dad since she misses him?<br /><br />Hang in there! Hugs!Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18141938504286823209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-26952924053117780532010-03-06T11:21:19.814-08:002010-03-06T11:21:19.814-08:00Ouch Becky! I think I may have let my hands do th...Ouch Becky! I think I may have let my hands do the talking all over Obi's hind end (I don't care the age) if he did that. Of course I've never been a mom and at this point I'm All talk. when I worked in the girls group homes we would take there make up, hair spray, curling irons, hair straighteners, and sometimes they'd have to wear the same outfit every day (washed daily) for a week, when they would ditch school. Girls are rough! Sorry you're going thru it with her.<br /> Love u bek!mak'n Changeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11285144224158102681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-15444539940493471282010-03-06T10:13:09.590-08:002010-03-06T10:13:09.590-08:00you should know that the 24 hr police missing pers...you should know that the 24 hr police missing persons rule only applies to ADULTS. if that happens again you can and should report her missing to the police immediately. they may (likely) treat it as a runaway case, but you really do need to report it as soon as you find out.Ellynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-27394567069750951832010-03-06T09:36:18.727-08:002010-03-06T09:36:18.727-08:00I totally used to do the same thing to my mom, tel...I totally used to do the same thing to my mom, tell her I would just go live with my dad. She called my bluff and said, "Ok" and then described what that would be like, really...I changed my mind fast.krousehousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02328075273787788524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-47106944208741494742010-03-06T07:40:06.125-08:002010-03-06T07:40:06.125-08:00I can not wait until my kids are teens! Just kidd...I can not wait until my kids are teens! Just kidding. Sounds like you are doing a wonderful job--keep up the good work. I have no idea what I would have done!jodilee0123https://www.blogger.com/profile/10169149989434828297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-81222380259737575522010-03-06T07:15:10.955-08:002010-03-06T07:15:10.955-08:00Don't do it. I was going through the same thin...Don't do it. I was going through the same thing with my teenage son and I let him go with his Dad. It's the same town and all, but seperating the boys has been hard. They see each other every weekend and then some, but they tend to fight more, because they are used to their own space now.birthmothertalkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17690158739622745922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-86321596951930994402010-03-06T07:13:10.052-08:002010-03-06T07:13:10.052-08:00I am so sorry that this is happening sis. It is a...I am so sorry that this is happening sis. It is a huge disappointment that she did this, but I agree with you on all the above. I cannot wait to get involved with Young Life. Sheesh.Annjerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758750709017524023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-38059331569377025402010-03-06T05:31:00.837-08:002010-03-06T05:31:00.837-08:00urrrrgggg, man I would have freaked out. I have a ...urrrrgggg, man I would have freaked out. I have a 13 yr old daughter and she doesn't see her dad so I can understand completely. Man, the teen years are for the hard core and I'm not quite hard core yet. Hang in there, HUGSKayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04199239034212280881noreply@blogger.com