tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post5057460355084412335..comments2023-08-27T03:46:44.855-07:00Comments on Sailing my way through...: Missing Ty.....Rebekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10550034649514622918noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-33370636199618526512009-10-26T11:37:11.296-07:002009-10-26T11:37:11.296-07:00I can't imagine the amount of love in your hea...I can't imagine the amount of love in your heart to be able to give Ty to a loving family. I don't know if I could do that, even if I wasn't able to provide for my child. I don't know that I am that selfless. I feel like I know you a little, I've been following Rebekah's blog for a while now, and it just occurred to me that I would love to read your thoughts and feelings too, so I emailed her to find your blog. Thanks for sharing posts like this, it's great to know there are people like you out there that have the love and strength to do what you did. I am a mother of two, and can't imagine the sadness you'd feel not having your baby at home with you. I'd take those substitute baby snuggles anywhere I could get them!!! Stay strong, Ty is the one that benefits in the end, which is why you're missing him in the first place!!Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00662085097517296000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-69282648275553302182009-10-26T05:58:00.727-07:002009-10-26T05:58:00.727-07:00I'm so glad you have another baby to cuddle. E...I'm so glad you have another baby to cuddle. EVERYONE needs baby love from time to time! I think our relationship works because we are so honest. You are allowed to FEEL.<br /><br />Ben and I went on a date night (for the first time since Ty!) last night and after 5 hours of being away I was chomping at the bit to get back to that baby! I can only imagine what you feel.<br /><br />You are tremendously strong; we all look up to you.Rebekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11920816691217676013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-69578491771520648412009-10-26T05:30:07.467-07:002009-10-26T05:30:07.467-07:00I commented and lost it. I hate that. I can unders...I commented and lost it. I hate that. I can understand where you are coming from. It's normal to miss him. I am glad that you have an open adoption. I am a victim of the 90's.birthmothertalkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17690158739622745922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-19623247338294286582009-10-26T05:27:00.664-07:002009-10-26T05:27:00.664-07:00I understand how you are feeling. It's so norm...I understand how you are feeling. It's so normal. I am glad that you have a great relationship with Rebekah. I think open adoption is the best. I was a victim of the 90's. It's great that you have good friends to help you brighten up your day.birthmothertalkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17690158739622745922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-73379139566016528352009-10-25T20:26:18.407-07:002009-10-25T20:26:18.407-07:00Thinking of you!Thinking of you!M/J Granatahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02470529428757286407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-10831603081330631162009-10-25T20:25:19.189-07:002009-10-25T20:25:19.189-07:00Thinking of you and praying for you! You are so v...Thinking of you and praying for you! You are so very special. You are a blessing... and Ty will ALWAYS be proud of his first mommy! I pray that you begin to feel comfort and peace in your heart at this time. Don't forget how incredible and amazing you truly are. Hugs... and lots of love!M/J Granatahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02470529428757286407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-76727400039319281832009-10-25T12:00:23.683-07:002009-10-25T12:00:23.683-07:00You deserve every second of free time you get,, yo...You deserve every second of free time you get,, you deserve a whole bunch more too. Im super proud of the lady you've become and I will always look up to you as my wiser, younger cousin.<br /> I hope you get your fill of baby, I was telling carrie she and chris might just find out she's pregnant now that she's lost so much weight. So maybe you will get your baby fix that way too. How cool would that be for them to have another kiddo. So cute!<br /> I love you becky, and hope your day goes amazingly!<br /> Cindiemak'n Changeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11285144224158102681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-82832093759988283402009-10-25T11:55:43.114-07:002009-10-25T11:55:43.114-07:00Rebekah...you're awesome. That's all ther...Rebekah...you're awesome. That's all there is to it. I'm glad you have some people around you to bless you as much as you've been a blessing to other people. And I think it would be a little weird if you DIDN'T miss Ty from time to time. But the important thing is, you have that peace that passes all understanding, because like you said, you are so happy with the way things turned out. Hugs for you!Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12090421642577437909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-35128030513636841472009-10-25T07:30:03.295-07:002009-10-25T07:30:03.295-07:00What nice friends to treat you to the special day!...What nice friends to treat you to the special day!<br /><br />I would think your feelings are completely normal. You are such a strong person and have beautiful kids looking up to you!Amber D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05109359036453438923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-37476701289816051142009-10-25T06:58:38.594-07:002009-10-25T06:58:38.594-07:00Hugs. It is so normal to miss your little boy. I k...Hugs. It is so normal to miss your little boy. I know that Shelby's bmom misses her too. Yes, she doesn't regret her decision with placiing her or choosing us to be her mama and daddy but she loves her and misses her and cares for her. <br /><br />Praying for continued peace. I am so happy that you and Rebekah have a good relationship and strong communciation!LLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10456346448934464767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2742513755380604219.post-32236637713001210582009-10-25T03:11:41.176-07:002009-10-25T03:11:41.176-07:00I'm praying for you! I think it is completely ...I'm praying for you! I think it is completely normal to miss him. What a blessing that you are able to have the neat relationship with Rebekah and hear about how he is doing! May God's hand of peace be upon you today.Mochamamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17853322913454909483noreply@blogger.com